How to have a good 'cat attitude'

What is a good ‘cat attitude’?

Having a good cat attitude means that we are openly welcoming towards cats, we understand their needs as cats, and we don’t assume the worst when they do something we don’t appreciate.

It also means that we treat them with humanity – and can even put ourselves in their shoes to help them when they need it.

Why is it important to have a good cat attitude?

Just like in all relationships – whether between animals or people - we need to create a good foundation for a positive, lasting relationship.

Trying to put yourself in the other person's shoes helps you to better understand who they are – and why they are the way they are. It also means you can better build a meaningful relationship with them. Because relationships are always two-sided.

In the same way, you cannot influence what your cat does. But you do have control over how you handle each situation that arises. By being mindful of how your cat is thinking and feeling, you can better see opportunities to help them behave differently.

Give your cat opportunities to do the right thing

While you can’t control your cat’s actions, you may be able to change their behaviour by giving them better opportunities to do what you want. It’s important to respect your cats boundaries and understand what they need to be happy. For example:

• If they scratch the sofa, they need a better scratching post.
• If they pee outside the litter box, they might need a different litter box, or even different litter.
• If they are nagging for attention, they may need stimulation.

Understanding why your cat behaves the way it does will help you better understand their needs. Check out out top tips on creating a good home environment for your cat.

Expand your knowledge of cats and their needs

Knowledge is power. And knowing more about cats in general, as well as your own cat’s individual needs, will help you and your cat have a better relationship.

It might be worth picking up a cat book, or looking up reliable information on the internet about the origin, behaviour and needs of cats.

Also think about your cat’s experiences as a kitten – and what they learned to like and enjoy during that period of their life. This can influence their preferences later in life. For example, it might be that they only like a certain kind of food or cat litter.

Tips and advice from a cat behaviourist

• When your cat does something that you don't want them to do, take a deep breath and think about why they’re doing it. Is there something you can give them to change the situation?
• Meet your cat's basic needs and furnish your home for a good life together.
• Learn more about cats and their origins, behaviour and needs. It's an investment in your relationship!